As a voice for those who cant come forward, who cant even like this post they are so afraid of consequence. May 19, 2016 glasgowdogtrainer Leave a comment. John McGuigan is the author of Your Dog Trainer's 5 Step Guide to Dog Training and is well known for his presence online as the Glasgow Dog Trainer. Im not a trainer or have any knowledge apart from basic but I adore dogs and people. Your personal journey reasona yes with me. I recognise these symptoms in my days too. Well said. I have found my mojo again and its thanks to a bit of courage on my part and my wonderful hairy clients. One lady on her own had 30 complaints logged in the states complete with photographic evidence. Dog Training in the St Cloud, Orlando, Kissimmee, Melbourne, Celebration, Winter Park, Palm Bay, Winter Park, Clermont and Central Florida area. At least three professional ethics boards have assessed the situation and ALL of them have found sufficient cause to revoke his credentials and/or membership from our affiliate bodies and some have banned him from all public events. When a partner promises to pull out as your contraception attempt, because he wants to feel close to you take your judgment elsewhere if he then ejaculated inside of you, this is violating the conditional consent you gave to engage in that sexual act. I know it will take time, months, years, my whole life, and I hate this knowledge so much! It's fucking brutal and the sooner the law changes in protection of abuse victims the better. Stand up when you see others being bullied or harassed as you dont know how it is effecting the recipient. Even so, the book then talks about the video in a very train of thought manner, and I cant picture what hes describing. Andrew Solomon, who is a psychiatric expert on depression likens the mind to an iron structure. Shipping cost, delivery date, and order total (including tax) shown at checkout. I wonder whether the heavy drinking culture that developed in this part of the world was a way for some men to numb or crush their feelings full stop. Peace. (LogOut/ About this video: John McGuigan is a cross-over trainer. I am betting there are counselling services near you. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NOAgplgTxfc. RSS Feed Isolation kills. I too have struggled for years with depression with a side of anxiety. Your next level of performance relies on your next level of truth. Heres what John would have needed to say in order to be genuinely seeking consent; Id like to dehumanise you, fuck you for a few weeks, lie to you about having a future together so youll give me your body and agree to do things in youll deeply regret later. I to started yoga, I started studying , I started thearpy (rape crises, cbt and anger management) , and I worked on getting my happy back! There is a power dynamic at play with flattery, admiration, all at play and feelings for a man they want to keep. As established I sat with Steve White as testimony to my whereabouts. It is protected from claims toward rights to privacy because John brought his side of the story to social media first and this is my response. need to work on most! Look how 21st century we all are! You life and your work are too important. All I want to do it live my life peacefully, help people and their dogs and develop good business relationships. Not only is his erect penis in the pictures, so is his face. [contact-form-7 id="95" title="Quick Contact_copy"]. Being a behaviour practitioner, a personal growth nerd and having spent much of my adult life in recovery I know a thing or two about mental illness. Amazon.com: Your Dog Trainers 5 Step Guide To Dog Training: How to have a well behaved and obedient dog in only 15 minutes a day: 9781976943249: McGuigan, John: Libros Find support groups online, cognitive-behavioural therapy can also be partly done without the need to see the therapist every week or so. Change), You are commenting using your Twitter account. Your skills training dogs are incredible. Ive worked for the NHS and local government on and off for 20 years, but last year decided to step away from that and become a dog walker. I typed out one of the Youtube addresses, but no video is found. After a brief explanation several of the six students there admitted to having advances from John and pulled out their phones to show their proof. His information is sound and science-based, and is delivered in such a way that even the most confused or desperate dog owner can start using it to make positive changes immediately without being overwhelmed. Most of all, his own words, uttered maybe two meetings into our relationship - ought to have been the biggest warning; I made a mistake a few years ago and there are some psychotic women who are trying to destroy me for it. I found him to be kind, compassionate, empathetic, non judgemental and very good at reading dogs and people. I remember thinking I cant wait to be a grown up so I can have some control over my life. Hes an international speaker and has been training dogs for over 10 years. lecture, and hands on demonstration using carefully selected demo dogs included. I grew up in the NE of England. As well as training private clients, John also teaches other dog trainers and has presented in Australia, Canada, USA, Slovenia, Spain, Scotland and England with several more countries in the works for 2019. I dont have the courage to speak loud about my depression but I feel more confident and strong fighting it thanks to people like you. Help your body and your brain out, you have the power to do something about it. . I do not consider myself to be a vulnerable woman. I do things differently, To this day I have no idea what he meant, but it does highlight his dogged determination to use a platform to diminish others and. Whether you decide to work with me or someone else be sure to ask these 3 questions (taken from John McGuigan, dog behavior consultant, quoted from "Truth In Advertising." Published in Bark Issue 87, Fall 2016): . This situation needs to be ended. I will fuck with your head, alternate between making you think Im going to kill myself and making you think we are going to get married and rule the industry until you dont know what the fuck is going on to ensure that my vulnerability appears to your better nature and youll give me anything I ask for. He . John you are so brave for sharing your experiences and reaching out to people about this. John tells his story about transitioning from using corrections in training to positive reinforcemen. Much love to you all h X. We wrote this letter to all the relevant the affiliate bodies. This last year has been different. Posts about John McGuigan written by glasgowdogtrainer. Want a free guide to North East business awards on this sunny Monday morning? In this podcast we spoke about John's career in the police, how he has leveraged social media to grow his business and overcoming mental health issues as a dog trainer. The link is printed on the page but of course is not user friendly in paper format. No thank you, and he put it away. Weve got these brains which evolved in a very different period of time for a completely different world. Do you know what sucks, Ive sat with him many evenings chuckling as he said to me watch this, Im going to wade in and shut that shit down when his social media page was kicking off with angry people. She had been through a tough time and wanted to talk to me about Johns abusive behaviour toward her. Ive thought long and hard about writing this blog as its been a personal struggle which I wasnt sure if I wanted to share. Follow authors to get new release updates, plus improved recommendations. Like so many others, I wish you well! (I bought this on kindle) I'm not far through this yet but I wanted to say a massive thank you for the YouTube links. So many suffer alone. In response to his fundraiser for abused women. About this video: John McGuigan is a cross-over trainer. That I got to comfort him. John Mcguigan and Dr Ian Dunbar - Out to Lunch over Learning Theory - Flipping the Script. It takes everything you have to stand in this level of truth and face it head on, please don't pressure anyone who isn't ready. Looking forward to reading through the whole thing and apply my new knowledge to my GSD. Ive not looked back, although it was a scary thing to do, would people need me, would they want me to become part of their life and card for their precious babies. Having received it in paperback form (I buy all my dog training books in paperback format) I am really disappointed. There was an error retrieving your Wish Lists. If I became overwhemed when out I would try to centre myself in the moment by concentrating on 5 things I could see, 4 things I could hear, 3 things I could feel, 2 things I could smell or taste. With the support of my amazing family and friends Ive always got through, thankfully. I deny these allegations entirely. Contact Information. Let me ask you a question: do you work for a living? The media presents a key democratic space by which to ensure that long suppressed accounts of sexual violence and trauma surface and are taken seriously, we must ensure bad men cant use the law to silence women. So talk. Helen and bella x. Im so sorry youre experiencing depression, but bless you for sharing. Thank you. I also have an under active thyroid, double whammy. Depression kills us if we dont. And, as John said: depression kills. Some dogs are continually jumping up on people, or they dont come to you when you call them. Especially the guys, talk to someone, please, if you feel like this. I urge you to read it. Every time I go in, the staff is friendly, give a report of how the day went, and get my pup ready to go for me AND they will upload photos from time to time so you can see your . It is only a part of me and something I am trying to make a temporary part of me. At three and a half minutes this video is great value for your time. If you are a victim of John's and want to stand for action contact the the Police Officer here; If you are a victim of sexual abuse by ANYONE please know that we all stand together. Our payment security system encrypts your information during transmission. I hope you understand this will require you to do your due diligence and research my position on this for yourself to discern its reliability and significance. This means that its not just conversational in tone, but disjointed and difficult to read. You need to get it out in some productive way. You have described American culture, as well. Change), You are commenting using your Facebook account. Meanwhile his behaviour continues, and more women suffer. Thank you for speaking so openly and honestly about the day to day challenges, while youre still in the midst of it. It is tragic. , Item Weight When we talk, we heal; not just ourselves, but others too. Good on you John. I know this has been a bit disjointed but we are not defined by our depression. The two individual senders were both at woof. Ill pull strings to ensure you are blocked from the international speaking circuit and Ill make sure Im super charming, charismatic and believable and that you look completely hysterical and unreliable because Ive worked on this for a long time now. At the risk of being poo pooed I have found dropping all grains from my diet has helped my black dog stay at bay. Additionally, Ill also be screwing several other women with my unprotected penis and expose your body to potential sexual health risks AND Id like to tell graphic stories and share your personal intimate details with said women. However, as I have previously had a personal relationship with him, he has used this to suggest my challenge was also personal. I spend at least two hours most days hiking in the countryside with my beloved girl. I could harldy get out of bed or put on my clothes. He joined me to discuss the lessons he learned from Mondio which he employs to better use play to train pet dogs. I foolishly waited this long before giving my side of the story. MAFS star Jesse Burford breaks down in tears in brutal commitment ceremony trailer - as his cheating wife Claire Nomarhas begs for forgiveness. . : Something went wrong. I hope you are doing well. I was one of the first to try Prozac and it was a magic bullet for me, after having tried almost everything else. John tells us why you need to listen to your dog, how he became a dog trainer, why you shouldnt be texting when you walk your dog and why you need to throw your flexi lead in the bin! He works well with both ends of the leash and I highly recommend him if you need any help at all with your dog. Incidents that we are aware of have occurred as recently as 6 weeks ago. Also feel that that the paperback is a bit of a cheat as John refers you to a video on YouTube to demonstrate a point he is making. Publisher That was my world view. There will be spelling a grammatical mistake, deal with it. On the 13th March 2020, John McGuigan, The Glasgow Dog Trainer posted about suffering at the hands of campaigners who were harassing him and his family by accusing him of sexual predation. The response was unanticipated, and warranted a police investigation into serious professional misconduct, bullying, sexual harassment, violence and more serious sexual crimes. Skip to content. There is nothing brave or courageous about his actions in posting what he did. It turned out many women, standing alone or so they believed - had been fighting him and the affiliate bodies who they couldnt get to listen, for years. There were early signs that I didnt see the significance of at the time. BJJ, which made me feel better was now no longer available to me so I felt worse. If anybody can help you to a better relationship with your dog in only 15 minutes a day, John is that person. Up until the last year or so, Ive been able to bring myself out of most of them most of the time, with the support of loved ones and exercise. I have a number of online dog training and behaviour courses which are ready to go. Try again. And in an attempt to stop the repetition of this pattern and protect vulnerable women future harm. Please try your request again later. He released his own Program later that week and cashed about 3.5K in the bank immediately and secured an income of 30K over the year. We met up at Costas, he offered to take me back to his place afterward which I not so politely rebuffed as we were now friends who could banter and, sorry feminism - who doesnt want to be told they are hot by a hot guy! The links to videos in the kindle version are extra helpful as visual aids. Its always one day and something that you promise yourself youll get around to eventually.We carried out a survey of the top training problems people encountered with their dogs. In that time he has amassed over 4500 hours of client facing hours and has worked with over 2000 dogs. Dog Training in the St Cloud, Orlando, Kissimmee, Melbourne, Celebration, Winter Park, Palm Bay, Winter Park, Clermont and Central Florida area. John has been training dogs professionally for over 10 years. I wish you well with your coping and I hope you know your not alone too. John is a master at breaking things down into easily digestible components so you and your dog can most easily, effectively, and enjoyably learn together. In this podcast we spoke about John's career in the police, how he has leveraged social media to grow his business and overcoming mental health issues as a dog trainer. When people have mental health issues, they seek ways to make themselves feel better; shopping, gambling, drinking, drugs, risk taking. See the complete profile on LinkedIn and discover John's connections and jobs at similar companies. Thank you, John. Well done you brave man! Depression is about loss and anxiety is about uncertainty of what will happen next. Dawn French showed off her incredible weight loss and brought back her classic bob haircut as she attended the Oklahoma! John tells his story about transitioning from using corrections in training to positive reinforcement based training methods. Being manipulated into doing things with your life, your body, your emotions based on lies and deceit hurts, a lot. Users who like Dog Talk Podcast #1 - John McGuigan; Glasgow Dog Training By Dog Behaviourist John McGuigan. John has recently been working with Claire Russell to run the now highly praised, 'Positively Excellent Dog Training' workshops in Scotland. How to Be Your Dogs Superhero Thankfully yes. I used to be a pole dancer - you just need to be powerful, masculine, YOU are in control. Sometimes I still get overwhelmed and need to go home. John Mcguigan You can see that he no longer displays affiliate badges on his website and in the hashtags he uses in his social media are now omitting these names. Just amazingly brave and from the heart! We had four GSDs at the time of his death. I feel so much for the young men growing up feeling so desperate to fit into their communities and genuinely thinking this is what is expected of them as the stereotypical male. #41: Steve Mann Puppy Training Founder of the IMDT Steve Mann joins me to talk about puppy training and his time coaching on television including working with Brian Blessed. Download the free Kindle app and start reading Kindle books instantly on your smartphone, tablet, or computer - no Kindle device required. John and his team are committed to continuing education, so you can be assured that you and your dog will receive the most up to date, dog friendly techniques on the market. All you need is fifteen minutes a day and I can help you find those fifteen minutes. Your work is important, valued and is making a difference for the better in the world. I hosted John for a seminar here in Vancouver and he very kindly offered to work with me and my dog while he was here. We dont share your credit card details with third-party sellers, and we dont sell your information to others. So I started to give myself a break about it. All I ask is that you take me as you find me. I am in a privileged position through my work to reach a few thousand people so for me I need to try to help anyway I can. He's told them, just enough truth to create smoke and mirrors. Find the tiny little things which give you pleasure. John is well known for his training videos on Facebook and Youtube under the name Glasgow Dog Trainer. When consent is given it is given conditionally to the paradigm and beliefs you have about your relationship and the dynamic to believe to be true. : John McGuigan - Bio John has been running a successful dog training and behavior modification business for over 9 years. No one can quiet you without your permission. Tying my shoe laces was very painful. , ISBN-13 He was on call 24/7. If you believe you are building a life/relationship/future with someone, that they are not sexually active with any other people, that is what you consent is conditional upon. Thank you for sharing this powerful story. He was struggling to make further sales into his program so, over a whisky on the first evening - I gave him a sales process and a quick tutorial on what to say to adequately demonstrate the value of this program if the client was a right fit to benefit from his teaching. Emily Larlham - Loose leash walking. You can return the item for any reason in new and unused condition: no shipping charges. I am speaking up now because he has opened this up to a public forum, and I get to stand for those who cant have a voice. The letters started to pour in from individuals and mentors. a weekend with john mcguigan, glasgow dog trainer: aggression, self-control and human movement for dog training in this 3 .5 day workshop, john will cover various aspects of dealing with aggression, self-control and human movement for dog training. He was so grateful I was there for him, to support him whilst he was struggling with his depression. I think all the terrible things hed seen as part of his job were no longer able to stay submerged in his mind. Reviewed in the United States on January 20, 2018. They have contacted friends and family, many times anonymously, leaving voicemails and sending emails and messages, accused me of serious sexual assault, sending unsolicited sexually graphic communications, told others I am a sexual predator and engaged in other activities which have damaged my business and reputation. Dog Behaviour Training, Dog Professionals Courses, and 1 to 1 Dog Training for Dogs Owners. There are others writing their experiences and accounts which I encourage you to also read. He joined me to discuss the lessons he learned from Mondio which he employs to better use play to train pet dogs. John McGuigan and his son James leave the Federal Court in Sydney. https://www.epic-dog.com/post/dear-john-i-believe-the-women This vile man John Mcguigan who operates as the Glasgow Dog Trainer has for years continuously harassed . They misunderstood or where overly sensitive, I had to be strong for him and stand for him as his friend. Depression kills. Twice it has become too much and I hit rock bottom and am lucky to still be here. If anyone would like to see the paid invoices from his contracted hours at the facility, his facilitation fee at my retreat, or his account in my academy which sits at 0 they are open to you. I have several other professional dog trainers in the public eye who will speak to you if helpful to confirm their first-hand account. I have had help with medication and therapy in the past, now just cope as best I can on a daily basis. The print is far too small to make it comfortable to read - even with my glasses. John McGuigan is the author of Your Dog Trainer's 5 Step Guide to Dog Training and is well known for his presence online as the Glasgow Dog Trainer.